Yvonne? Five questions answered here.

My D Lee, Aadishpa, Beth T, Raj s, Rita have answered their five Questions from me and so has Manju.

Mithuna, Shankar and Kannan have also replied, see comments section for their answers.

My Questions from Yvonne are below.

Yvonne has asked her friends to complete the answers to these five questions. I have reciprocated and if you wish me to ask you five questions, not the same as these, then please leave me that option in my comments section below. I am happy for everyone to leave their own comments also about these introspective questions, left by Yvonne for her friends.

I have also left a candle of Love in my photo above for all my September born friends and I wish you All, many more candles and Wonderful Birthdays to come. Hugs Milli.

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Hi!!! From Yvonne:

I want to know you better, these are the questions I made for you guys! Have fun.


1. Which One are you????? And why???

The Playful Child
That self that is naturally playful, creative, spontaneous and fun loving child. This self longs to play. Many of us have forgotten how to do this without guilt or anxiety that as adults we must be doing something that is worthwhile.

The Spoiled Child
That part of us wants what they want and they want it now, and if they don't get what they want, they throw temper tantrums.

The Neglected Child
The child self that was always left alone without much nurturing and love. They don't believe they are lovable or worthwhile. They don't know how to love. They are depressed and want to cry.

The Abandoned Child
This child self has been left in some way like divorce or adoption or just left because the parents were kept busy working. They are always fearful that they will be abandoned again and again. This part of the self is starving for extra attention and reassurance that they are safe and okay. This self is very lonely.

The Fearful Child
This part has been overly criticized when they were small. Now they are anxious and are in panic much of the time. They need lost of encouragement and positive affirmations.

The Unbonded Child
This Inner Child never learns to be close to anyone. They are isolated. Intimacy feels alien and scary. Trust is a basic issue.

The Discounted Child
This is a part of the self that was ignored and treated as though they did not exist. They don't believe in themselves and need lots of love to assist and support them.

These are all possibilities of the different Inner Children that might be inside. There are many other selves as well. Perhaps the Ego self, or the self that hold shame, or the self the holds the information that was given to them by their parents or teachers or society as a whole.

Develop the ability to give yourself a profound healing experience. Soothe you Inner Child when he or she is under emotional stress. Use the awareness of the Inner Dialogues that are going on and become apart of the path you are on instead of being lead where you might not want to go. Ultimately you can heal and be a happy person in your life.


2. Here is this situation a car accident what's your reaction if your partner tell you this???
To my darling husband, or wife.
Before you return from your overseas trip I just want to let you know about the small accident I had with the pick up truck when I turned into the driveway. Fortunately not too bad and I really didn't get hurt, so please don't worry too much about me.

I was coming home from Wal-Mart, and when I turned into the driveway I accidentally pushed down on the accelerator instead of the brake. The garage door is slightly bent but the pick up fortunately came to a halt when it bumped into your car.

I am really sorry, but I know with your kind-hearted personality you will forgive me. You know how much I love you and care for you my sweetheart. I am enclosing a picture for you.

I cannot wait to hold you in my arms again.
Love you

3. Meditation and other mindfulness techniques are designed to help people pay more attention to their present emotions, thoughts and sensations without reacting strongly to them.
Mediators often acknowledge and name their negative emotions in order to let them go.
Do you practice meditation or faith, positive mind?

4. Now, let's talk about your country. If you were elected president or governor, what would you do for it. What do you really want to change from it???


5. What is the happiest of your memories? Why?

Question one answered:

As with all children we are the sum of our beginnings

As we grow and mature life teaches us many lessons some good some not so pleasant.

I think I can identify with more than one of these children Yvonne

The abandoned child certainly lurked around from a broken family at age 7.

I went through my fearful child stage after the separations.

However I found my Playful child again because she had really been with me all the time. She just needed some time to sort things through.

Question two answered:

You can make me the driver or the other half as I am not sure which is meant in the question Yvonne. So I will answer it as if I am the one who is away.

I must say none of those answers would be mine LOL.

My answer is more like this:

Me "Everyone is fine?" Yes.

"Car needs attention, then get it fixed and fill out the required forms."

Explain to my nearest and dearest that all is fine. The car is being fixed and not to worry these things happen.

Soon I will be home safely and lets be thankful for small mercies.

I LoveYou! and Take Care

Question Three:

Meditation for me is:

Faith combined with Positive Affirmations at times.

Or I would be in meditation whilst in prayer or whilst sitting by the sea or in any place where I feel at ease and natural.

It may even be whilst reading a very spiritual poem, story or philosophy.

Then again it could occur whilst I lay on my bed and count my blessings.

Meditation for me is not a ritual but an instinct and can be done whenever I desire for it to happen.

I have felt immense peace and meditative insight, even whilst bobbing in a little boat in the sea.

Because it is a state from with in, it matters not the place but more the wish to contemplate in this state of being.

I find writing, for me at times, can be meditative also.

Question Four:

Oh this one needs a post on it's own, asking me about politics LOL.

I think I will be succinct here though.

We have a Nation that can be very well placed on this Globe however we don't have the backbone to become a great country whilst we forget to educate all our inhabitants well, or have excellent medical facilities provided for all our populace. Nor when we not place value on all of our peoples and that includes the elderly population.

When a politician takes his oath in office why is it he forgets that he was placed there for the people by the people and not for a select few or him/herself?

No matter what I say here, until we have a voting system that gives us a choice to vote for individuals who stand for the good of All and with the integrity to discern and strive forward with Australia's potential in mind, we will not be voting with a clearly great lot of good choice candidates. Most are just too caught up in political rhetoric rather than grand governance for Our Unique and Diverse Australian future.

Question Five:

Memories the best?

I have so many that I really don't want to bring it down to just one.

Instead I want to make more as I travel life's pathways.

Then at the end of my journey I want to rest back and Say to myself

The road less travelled was your own unique highway and Wow!! it was full of the best choices you could have made, because it is filled full with Happy Moments, Joy full Events and Love shared to its fullest.

What a delightful Memory that will make?